[Hotfix] Remove slf4j classes from kyuubi-hive-jdbc-shaded

[zhoujinsong]

Why are the changes needed?

kyuubi-hive-jdbc-shaded shade the slf4j 1.x classes which are conflicts with slf4j 2.x in ams.
This PR removed them from the jar to avoid conflicts.

Brief change log

• As title

How was this patch tested?

• Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

• Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

• Run test locally before making a pull request

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? (yes / no)
• If yes, how is the feature documented? (not applicable / docs / JavaDocs / not documented)

[j1wonpark]

Reproduced with the 0.9.0 RC5 binary and on our k8s deployment. AMS and optimizer logs are empty (StaticLoggerBinder NOP fallback). Putting slf4j-api first on the classpath brings them back, so the fix looks right. RC5 doesn't include this, though.